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Becoming a Mom: Real Talk on the Ups, Downs, and In-Betweens of Trying to Conceive

Taking that big step towards having a baby is like starting an
adventure where you’re not quite sure of the path. It’s exciting to
think about baby giggles and tiny onesies, but let’s be real—it can
also feel like you’re stepping into a maze without a map.

Getting to Know Your Body

When you’re trying to get pregnant, getting to know your menstrual cycle becomes super important. It’s all about timing! I started off feeling like I needed a degree in biology to understand it all. But trust me, once you get the hang of it, it becomes second nature.

The Waiting Game

After you’ve done the baby dance, comes the infamous two-week wait—the time between trying and taking a pregnancy test. It’s a mix of daydreaming about your future little one and the nervous jitters every time you think about the outcome.

Sorting Fact from Fiction

There are tons of myths out there about getting pregnant. From “just relax” to “eat this or try that to get pregnant faster.” I learned to take these with a grain of salt and stick to advice from my doctor or proven tips

When It's Tougher Than Expected

Sometimes, getting pregnant takes more than just a few tries. It can be tough to talk about, but you’re definitely not alone. I found comfort in talking to other women who were going through the same thing.

Taking Care of You

Looking after yourself becomes super important. Eating well, staying active, and finding time for yourself are key. And don’t forget your partner! They’re on this baby-making journey with you, so keeping that bond strong matters a lot.

Asking for Help

It’s totally okay to ask for help if you’re having trouble getting pregnant. Whether it’s a doctor who specializes in fertility or just someone to talk to, reaching out can be a game-changer.

Expect the Unexpected

The road to becoming a mom can sometimes take twists and turns you never expected. Staying open to different ways of becoming a parent can sometimes lead to the happiest surprises.

Learning to Wait

One big thing about trying to have a baby is learning to be patient. Sometimes things don’t happen on our schedule, and that’s okay. There’s something special about the hope and the dreams that come with waiting.

A Big Hug of Hope

To all you amazing future moms out there, remember that your journey is yours alone. It’s full of hope and it’s unique. Through all the ups and downs, know that you’ve got a whole bunch of us rooting for you.


So hang in there, take good care of yourself, and keep your heart open. And remember, through this whole baby-making adventure, you’ve got a friend right here